Confused about my sexuality

[LUCKY40]

First thing i would say, which im sure has been said thousands of times before, but is very important, is dont try and label your self. People are often confused, not because they dont know what they like, but they dont know what label they fit into best. Think of sexuality as fluid, it doesnt have to be one or the other.

You could be more nervous with men for a number of reasons, partly because you sometimes 'dont think its right'. This may be completley wrong, but i imagine that is to do with how you were raised, and your parents expecting you to get married and have kids etc like the 'normal' family. Society is starting to move on, and you need to move on yourself, and accept that it isnt wrong, its perfectly normal! you are completely right when you say if you like someone then go for it! You may find you are more nervous with men because i imagine you have had less experiences with men?

Lee :biggrin:

Well, I have been with 2 guys so far. The 1st time was with a friend in our early teen years. The 2nd time was with a 37yr old guy after a few months of getting my own apartment in August 09. The 2nd time was more like a one night stand but, I sent the guy home after 10 or 15 minutes of meeting each other. He wasn't my type and I should of never use Craigslist to meet guys LOL. I don't feel comfortable with telling my mom about my Bi sexuality. It was crazy enough for her to buy gay porn to see how men have sex. It was my 1st gay porn movies because I watched it too and I kept the movie to myself until I lost it LOL. I also don't feel comfortable in going to a adult store and buying gay material. I know I would like to buy a dildo of some kind and gay porn movies. I will just be nervous when buying them before I exit out of the store LOL. I need to wake up and accept the fact that I'm Bi and I like men.