Is he subtly hinting or is he just comfortable with himself?

[matty7]

gaydar is not perfect lol, but from, what you say then this person is on our team,,,,lots of gay guys have been with girls inc me so thats nothing to put u off, its the other stuff that makes me think he's gay - sounds like he's pretty much using his gaydar to predict who's gay by the way they act or appear and by making it a joke then he's not actually coming out at all - its safe in his eyes and a fair play to him...uf u want to get close to someone then u may have to drop some hints big time while ur alone - ask him if a certain actor has a great physique etc,,, see how he replies then take the lead !!! - if it goes Pete Tong though dont kill me cos im no expert on this stuff haha