10-11-2010, 02:21 PM
tips for talking dirty.... hmmmm
I'm not the best guy at this but I like to think I'm passable... god I hope so anyway.
Well, first you have to know the person, and by that I mean their interests; most guys like being told they're 'big' and such I think it's a balance of being complimentary and dirty, using your wits to kinda pick up on what they want. The real problem is when you sorta move into porno territory, which isn't really sexy for anyone.
I would say - think about your partner - what they normally ask of you, or want, what they admire about you... then make it pre-emptive, so you're playing on that strength. Other than that just tell him what you feel at that moment, if you're ready, you want him, even just describing your actions; all that basic stuff. I know it's awkward but as long as you don't overdo it and know your role it should be okay.
I'm not the best guy at this but I like to think I'm passable... god I hope so anyway.
Well, first you have to know the person, and by that I mean their interests; most guys like being told they're 'big' and such I think it's a balance of being complimentary and dirty, using your wits to kinda pick up on what they want. The real problem is when you sorta move into porno territory, which isn't really sexy for anyone.
I would say - think about your partner - what they normally ask of you, or want, what they admire about you... then make it pre-emptive, so you're playing on that strength. Other than that just tell him what you feel at that moment, if you're ready, you want him, even just describing your actions; all that basic stuff. I know it's awkward but as long as you don't overdo it and know your role it should be okay.