Human dating poison? Is it me?

[princealbertofb]

These are all guys that have come up to me, or asked me out on a date for whatever reason. Then after the date the switch they had on for me is turned off, and they don't seem as into me. I have trouble with knowing what to say on a date.

You must be quite attractive in a physical sense, and they are very shallow to narrow you down to just that. It would make sense not to let the physical be the only thing that they find attractive. Another question I have is:
* "Do you get drunk, or have recreational drugs, or let down your barriers in such ways?"
Because they will unfortunately alter your 'right' judgement. I might suggest trying to date without those artefacts, so you keep your guards up when you need your wits about you. You can still find people attractive, if they are genuine, when sober and not under any influence... Just a thought.