10-10-2010, 01:18 PM
Please don't feel silly, when you share such intensely personal feelings. Even those of us lucky enough to have found a partner could find ourselves in the same boat if fate takes a slightly different twist.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone. I would agree with fenris when he suggests that the men you meet may be in the sort of places where men don't normally look for something longer term. Since being a cat lady is obviously out of the question, maybe you might find someone through an interest or hobby you both share?
My partner and I actually were pen-pals for months before we ever met in real life, so I wouldn't rule out the possibility of getting to know someone over the net first. We've now been together for many years.
Some people just don't seem to be lucky in the relationship department. I have a friend a few years older than I am. We've known each other for over twenty years and once had a bit of a thing together for a few months. Sadly, the feelings were not there for me. I would have loved to be with a financially sorted, stable, caring man in his lovely house on the coast, who loved me, but I could not requite. He is the kindest sweetest man anyone could hope to meet, but for some reason his boyfriends have always ended up betraying him. That's probably not what you want to hear. He now says that he is very happy and has a very active social life. He certainly seems to have more friends than anyone else I have met. I still live in hope that he, and you too, find someone to deserve the love you have to offer.
Best wishes to you.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone. I would agree with fenris when he suggests that the men you meet may be in the sort of places where men don't normally look for something longer term. Since being a cat lady is obviously out of the question, maybe you might find someone through an interest or hobby you both share?
My partner and I actually were pen-pals for months before we ever met in real life, so I wouldn't rule out the possibility of getting to know someone over the net first. We've now been together for many years.
Some people just don't seem to be lucky in the relationship department. I have a friend a few years older than I am. We've known each other for over twenty years and once had a bit of a thing together for a few months. Sadly, the feelings were not there for me. I would have loved to be with a financially sorted, stable, caring man in his lovely house on the coast, who loved me, but I could not requite. He is the kindest sweetest man anyone could hope to meet, but for some reason his boyfriends have always ended up betraying him. That's probably not what you want to hear. He now says that he is very happy and has a very active social life. He certainly seems to have more friends than anyone else I have met. I still live in hope that he, and you too, find someone to deserve the love you have to offer.
Best wishes to you.
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