weird relationship with friend! Help! Need advice!

[princealbertofb]

I would go with Jay on this one and tell you to be cautious, but you could also try calling his bluff and next time he makes that kind of remark (suck my dick.. etc...) you might just say something like: "whip it out then!". See if he dares make the move. The whole thing might lose you a friend, but it might also just make you both more comfortable if he is gay too and is just testing the waters. Question is: did you try to pretend that you weren't interested when you made your snotty comment? Or did you find his "pornographic terms" unacceptable?