10-19-2010, 12:36 AM
outandabout Wrote:Well he is the kind of guy who, if I go over to see him unannounced, he'll be even more upset. I tried that before - my commute involves calling my parking garage, going through tolls, and sitting through New York City traffic - and he greeted me with this expression of "why are you here?" If that happens it would make me even more depressed.Good grief! Some people make life SO difficult. Sorry to hear you have to put up with such immature behaviour.
I don't know the answer to your original question either, because I'm not aware that my boyfriend has ever been upset with me, and if he has he has hidden it remarkably well. If it happened I would probably go for a walk. I can see that he might be one of those people who take their disappointments out on the people they love the most, but then not liking surprise visits either? That's just strange!