What do you guys do when your boyfriend is upset with you?

[outandabout]

Good grief! Some people make life SO difficult. Sorry to hear you have to put up with such immature behavior.

I don't know the answer to your original question either, because I'm not aware that my boyfriend has ever been upset with me, and if he has he has hidden it remarkably well. If it happened I would probably go for a walk. I can see that he might be one of those people who take their disappointments out on the people they love the most, but then not liking surprise visits either? That's just strange!

I actually ended up doing exactly what you said - I took a walk. The first good long walk I've taken in a while. I think what I need to do is just sleep on it, and let him sleep on it. He always bursts out at little things but usually gets over it. I think he may also be worrying about the week I'll be away. He actually wanted to go to this pumpkin patch thing over the weekend (but I can't because I'll be away) so it's probably just bottled up disappointment spilling its way out. Regardless, I am going to surprise him tomorrow even if he says not to. A card and a small gift are good ideas - I haven't done something romantic like that in a while.

Thanks guys