What do you guys do when your boyfriend is upset with you?

[colinmackay]

Well he is the kind of guy who, if I go over to see him unannounced, he'll be even more upset. I tried that before - my commute involves calling my parking garage, going through tolls, and sitting through New York City traffic - and he greeted me with this expression of "why are you here?" If that happens it would make me even more depressed.

I've done that to my boyfriend when he lived 45 minutes away and I was greeted with big smiles and lots of hugs and kisses. If I got the reaction you have then I'd be very suspicious. I'd be thinking "what's he hiding?"