10-19-2010, 10:47 PM
I just recently stopped apologizing to my boyfriend for things I don't feel at fault for. We've only had about 4 serious discussions (maybe you could call them disputes) in the year we've been together. In the latest one, I didn't apologize simply to make the problem go away. It felt so much better, and I felt like he really responded to that! I even got him to say he'll try harder at something in the future.
We ended up talking for a long time as I battled with myself to try and remain strong and defend what I originally came to talk to him about. I'm proud I didn't cave. Right after our conversation we "hugged it out" which felt so good... For both of us I'm sure. Just standing there hugging and kissing. Ok I'll stop now ^_^.
We ended up talking for a long time as I battled with myself to try and remain strong and defend what I originally came to talk to him about. I'm proud I didn't cave. Right after our conversation we "hugged it out" which felt so good... For both of us I'm sure. Just standing there hugging and kissing. Ok I'll stop now ^_^.