10-21-2010, 12:32 PM
Hmm.
So you had sex with women when you were not attracted to them? Or where you attracted and now just are not?
You need to be a bit clearer on these points with yourself.
If you never had a second thought about being with a male, then chances are you are straight.
You had a sex drive, now you don't. This is the important thing here.
It can be one of two things: A psychological issue (emotional, stress related, part of depression, etc) or a physical disorder, such as a drop in hormones, illness, infection, etc.
In either case it should be seen by a doctor with in the next week or so since a sudden loss of libido (sex drive) can be indicative of some serious physical disorder.
There are psychological disorders such as 'sexual anorexia' where the patient totally loses any interest in sex. Causes and symptoms can vary greatly. While the onset is usually gradual and takes a few years, it has been known to happen almost as fast as flipping a light switch.
Let me clear something up with you, To be 'gay' is a lot more than just sex. To be gay means you have an attraction to the same gender - not just a sexual attraction, but also emotional and even intellectual attraction. There is within a need to bond, to find 'Mr or Miss Right' there is a need for love, commitment, etc.
If you feel a need to be with a man, if you think about cuddling, potential love, and things along that line, then most likely you are gay or bi with a strong gay leaning.
Having no desire for sex for women is not a singular sign of homosexuality latent or otherwise.
So you had sex with women when you were not attracted to them? Or where you attracted and now just are not?
You need to be a bit clearer on these points with yourself.
If you never had a second thought about being with a male, then chances are you are straight.
You had a sex drive, now you don't. This is the important thing here.
It can be one of two things: A psychological issue (emotional, stress related, part of depression, etc) or a physical disorder, such as a drop in hormones, illness, infection, etc.
In either case it should be seen by a doctor with in the next week or so since a sudden loss of libido (sex drive) can be indicative of some serious physical disorder.
There are psychological disorders such as 'sexual anorexia' where the patient totally loses any interest in sex. Causes and symptoms can vary greatly. While the onset is usually gradual and takes a few years, it has been known to happen almost as fast as flipping a light switch.
Let me clear something up with you, To be 'gay' is a lot more than just sex. To be gay means you have an attraction to the same gender - not just a sexual attraction, but also emotional and even intellectual attraction. There is within a need to bond, to find 'Mr or Miss Right' there is a need for love, commitment, etc.
If you feel a need to be with a man, if you think about cuddling, potential love, and things along that line, then most likely you are gay or bi with a strong gay leaning.
Having no desire for sex for women is not a singular sign of homosexuality latent or otherwise.
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