10-26-2010, 07:46 AM
Ditto to what Wintereis said...you need to do EVERYTHING YOU CAN to insure you are not on the sex offender list because it will haunt you forever and you will have to register as such and it is public record...
I had a few customers at the bar I worked at who went through this and I felt bad for them as I dont' think public sex with consenting adults has any place on the sex offender list.
If the other guy swears he didn't do it can you swear the same? As for reducing the charges for pleading guilty you need to ask specifically if you will be a registered sex offender...it is something you need to consider when making your choice.
I had a few customers at the bar I worked at who went through this and I felt bad for them as I dont' think public sex with consenting adults has any place on the sex offender list.
If the other guy swears he didn't do it can you swear the same? As for reducing the charges for pleading guilty you need to ask specifically if you will be a registered sex offender...it is something you need to consider when making your choice.