never noticed by other guys!

[Crisit21]

hi! im new here. I have a problem thats been bothering me for some time now. Im not noticed by other gay guys, im comletly ignored!! i dont know why. well... im not very much into fashion that is, and i dont act too afeminate, so im not obviously gay i guess. im not too masculine either, but i dont really like acting "girly" it personally (no offense) turns me off. i like guys masculine, well thats for another thread i guess lol.
Well the thing is that it is really easy for me to get girls, girls often look at me and flirt, in the university it is so easy hooking up with hot girls and i have even tried but i just give up cause i dont feel anything.
Im not open about being gay, i have told no one around, well i just decided its going to be this way for now, and i dont feel bad about it though. and add that i am very shy i have no chance of meeting other guys

so what do you guys suggest, do i have to be more gay wear like rainbow colors or something? is it that im ugly to other gay men? plizz help!!

Hi there, i have the same "problem" but i don't mind and u know why? Because i get to choose them i mean i wouldn't like to be picked up or be noticed beacause i like to notice them trust me u are not ugly at all and i'm saying that not even knowing how u look, i'm sure u are a goodlooking guy. I have the same thing with girls 2 they are very atractive towards me, my advice is not to start not being yrself wearing who know what and acting in a certain way, i say be yrself be confident with yr looks and if u see somebody thar u like give them a clue like a wink or a smyle or even a hi theee wassup u shall see it all works out