10-29-2010, 01:58 PM
Funny thing is, a lot of gay guys are almost scared to approach what they see as being a 100% straight guy.
In my mind (and other peoples) you are in a position where they assume you will reject them or even worse, homophobia still exists sadly. Unless you show your intentions a lot of gay guys will assume you're straight and leave you well alone; I'd actually say it's quite a good physical quality, I would love to be more masculine in some respects!
What I'm saying is that you're the one in control here. It sounds like you're throwing out a lot of straight vibes and making gay guys think "I've got no chance, or he'll probably just kick my ass and tell me where to go". Such are perceptions.
So don't change yourself, just pursue what you want. Gay guys LOVE straight guys, it's probably one of the biggest vanilla kinks.
You should have no problems if you're confident about yourself and what you want and actively pursue it.
In my mind (and other peoples) you are in a position where they assume you will reject them or even worse, homophobia still exists sadly. Unless you show your intentions a lot of gay guys will assume you're straight and leave you well alone; I'd actually say it's quite a good physical quality, I would love to be more masculine in some respects!
What I'm saying is that you're the one in control here. It sounds like you're throwing out a lot of straight vibes and making gay guys think "I've got no chance, or he'll probably just kick my ass and tell me where to go". Such are perceptions.
So don't change yourself, just pursue what you want. Gay guys LOVE straight guys, it's probably one of the biggest vanilla kinks.
You should have no problems if you're confident about yourself and what you want and actively pursue it.
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