Closted BF - Not sure if I did the right thing

[invis85]

I am dating a closeted boyfriend too. My bf has trouble accepting that he is not 'normal' and that he is 'different'. Whenever we are not on the right track, he gets these mood swings. Sometimes I worry will he take the 'easy' road and 'become' straight. I'm still with him because I know he still cares about me. Sometimes you just cannot help who you fall in love with.
From my perspective, until he can be 100% sure and accept himself, it is like dating a time bomb.
My bf does the same thing...he tries acting normal after we have serious talks...I think men tend to avoid emotional talks. I often wonder what goes through his head...