11-16-2010, 07:24 PM
I wouldn't agree with you, Pip about it inviting controversy. If he was wearing that T-shirt, it was probably to reinforce a rule that was badly enforced in the school or that was not sufficiently well known of the students. I would equate it with re-stating what the school rules are. They are NOT debatable. Anyone who doesn't agree with the rules can go and study elsewhere. Rules can be challenged but in the proper instances.
I know this has nothing to do with the actual debate here about gay-bullying, BULLYING which I find has no place in a school. However, it is a case in point. If the school does have anti-bullying policies and therefore rules to that effect, it should apply them and not pretend they don't exist.
I wasn't in the situation there, and would be hard pressed to say what really went on but I can see how it might have happened. In our school mobile phones are not allowed in the classroom and yet I find students using them daily. The student(s) may well disagree with this rule and think it is ok to use one while in class, but it doesn't make it any less reprehensible, if s/he should get caught using one. I often don't punish, but make a point of reminding them of the school rule. If they constantly disobey, I would be perfectly entitled to dismiss them, or give them detention for not obeying school policy, and disobeying me, or give them some extra work to drive the point home, maybe even write a word to the student's parents.
The rules are there to make the atmosphere of the class as fit for studying as is possible. Unruly students have to be warned, then punished if they transgress the rules that apply to everyone. It's a very fine line sometimes between what is bearable and what will eventually lead to chaos. Only the teacher can say what he is ready to put up with in terms of opposition in order to keep his class at a level of mutual understanding. If he felt he was losing it, his best option was probably to expell the students.
In the same way, I could be wearing a t-shirt saying: "Marijuana is illegal!" and that would probably invite controversy, but I'd be stating what legal rules apply in our country. Not that it would be my place, as a teacher, to punish those who contravene. But if students started being unruly about it and start a riot, then I wouldn't want to take the risk.
I know this has nothing to do with the actual debate here about gay-bullying, BULLYING which I find has no place in a school. However, it is a case in point. If the school does have anti-bullying policies and therefore rules to that effect, it should apply them and not pretend they don't exist.
I wasn't in the situation there, and would be hard pressed to say what really went on but I can see how it might have happened. In our school mobile phones are not allowed in the classroom and yet I find students using them daily. The student(s) may well disagree with this rule and think it is ok to use one while in class, but it doesn't make it any less reprehensible, if s/he should get caught using one. I often don't punish, but make a point of reminding them of the school rule. If they constantly disobey, I would be perfectly entitled to dismiss them, or give them detention for not obeying school policy, and disobeying me, or give them some extra work to drive the point home, maybe even write a word to the student's parents.
The rules are there to make the atmosphere of the class as fit for studying as is possible. Unruly students have to be warned, then punished if they transgress the rules that apply to everyone. It's a very fine line sometimes between what is bearable and what will eventually lead to chaos. Only the teacher can say what he is ready to put up with in terms of opposition in order to keep his class at a level of mutual understanding. If he felt he was losing it, his best option was probably to expell the students.
In the same way, I could be wearing a t-shirt saying: "Marijuana is illegal!" and that would probably invite controversy, but I'd be stating what legal rules apply in our country. Not that it would be my place, as a teacher, to punish those who contravene. But if students started being unruly about it and start a riot, then I wouldn't want to take the risk.
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