11-17-2010, 04:13 PM
mooninleo Wrote:Thank you all for your thoughts.
So befriend the hot ones is a rough zone.. and befriend ones i'm not attracted to, and focus on their negative qualities.
When I'm with one of the guys tho, how do I take my thoughts from thinking 'oh god hes so cute i want him to LIKE me,' to 'oh this guy is just a friend.'
I think this situation would be helped if I had a boyfriend. or something.
Sincerely,
Sadly Single
You just need to remember and keeping telling yourself that he is out of bounds. That no matter how much you like him or want him to like you, it's not going to happen. It'll probably be hard at first and you might never fully give up hope, but it'll definitely get better once you realise and accept that he really is straight and he's interested in girls and girls only. Some things you just have to accept aren't going to happen and weren't meant to be and move on.