11-30-2010, 01:45 AM
I agree with everything that P.A has said . I personally use a douche , but I will expalin here how to use one , because no one explained it to me and i had a very nasty experience lol. ( just think of a power jet wash stuck up your bum lol)
There are two types , one that looks like a extra large turkey baster , fill it with warm water , lube the end then stick it up ur bum and squeeze , hold it in then sit on the toilet and go to the toilet and squirt the water out , repeat serveral times until the water runs clear . You will then be clean inside.
The second type ( my type) attatches to the shower spray and has a valve to regulate the amount of water coming through . PLEASE if u get this type regulate the water so its only a trickle coming out , as this can be very uncomfortable and dangerous otherwise !!! This type is not suitable to use with electric showers as it causes the valve in the electric shower to break and u will end up with water running down the wall.
Do not use anything other than water , no harsh cleaning soaps etc as this could cause damage to the lining of the bowel
I like using a douche because I know then I'm not going to have any embaressing moments .
When ur bottoming , the best way is to relax your anal muscles and take it very slowly , it will feel uncomfortable at first , but an understanding and trustworthy partner is most important , make sure he doesnt just whack it in like he's trying to score a goal . It takes a couple of times to get used to it at first , but after that it gets better . If you dont like it the important thing is to say so and stop , try applying more lube if you want and see if this helps
There are two types , one that looks like a extra large turkey baster , fill it with warm water , lube the end then stick it up ur bum and squeeze , hold it in then sit on the toilet and go to the toilet and squirt the water out , repeat serveral times until the water runs clear . You will then be clean inside.
The second type ( my type) attatches to the shower spray and has a valve to regulate the amount of water coming through . PLEASE if u get this type regulate the water so its only a trickle coming out , as this can be very uncomfortable and dangerous otherwise !!! This type is not suitable to use with electric showers as it causes the valve in the electric shower to break and u will end up with water running down the wall.
Do not use anything other than water , no harsh cleaning soaps etc as this could cause damage to the lining of the bowel
I like using a douche because I know then I'm not going to have any embaressing moments .
When ur bottoming , the best way is to relax your anal muscles and take it very slowly , it will feel uncomfortable at first , but an understanding and trustworthy partner is most important , make sure he doesnt just whack it in like he's trying to score a goal . It takes a couple of times to get used to it at first , but after that it gets better . If you dont like it the important thing is to say so and stop , try applying more lube if you want and see if this helps
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