12-01-2010, 10:21 PM
I think you are legit, Pants. Now you don't tell us your age but from what I gather you've had time to think about it a bit, now. You are gradually working your mind round the fact that hetero may not be what you're after, after all. You could call yourself at least bi curious for the moment... Your attraction for the male form seems to point at least to some degree of homoeroticism, a latent homosexuality which will or will not satisfy you once you've tried it. Of course you can't always go with a first experience as a definite pointer of one of the other, especially if the experience isn't very good, but if you are tempted to try again, or if you realise that you like it and feel that it is natural, then maybe you are predominantly gay. Only you will be able to ascertain that in the long run. Since there is nothing wrong with a bit of experimenting, especially at a younger age (actually at any age, to be honest), I would advise that you find a nice potential partner and try it out. But today being AIDS REMEMBRANCE DAY, I don't need to remind you that protecting yourself and your partner(s) is still required and essential. Have fun, and come back to tell us if you've found your personal sexual truth.
Good luck.
Good luck.