Sex of the anal type.

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Okay, so I'm not sure whether I am gay or not (and of this question doesn't have any impact on my discovery process), but does anal sex hurt, feel good, or what? What does it feel like specifically? This is kinda a weird question but I am just curious.

If you go to start a new thread, and enter the subject as - 'anal sex' (ahhh, the joys of internet) you'll find a lot of topics posted about this already.

I'm guessing by the way you phrased it you mean being on the recieving end? I've heard this question before from people, it's understandable.

It depends on your lover, the position, how big they are :redface: all kinds of things... It sorta hurts then feels good... When I was young I always kinda wanted to try it and thought about it when I was jerking off so when I came to do it I was keen but scared. It hurts a lot at first if you've never done it before, and I'm guessing a deal of people tend to go off it because it's often wrongly seen as 'what gay men do' and try it unwillingly. As long as you take it slow at first and communicate with your partner about your experience and wants, you should be fine.

To talk about the physical sensation specifically would be a little crude, suffice to say it does feel good once you find the right person and relax. I've been close to orgasm before purely through stimulation that way, and it's pretty intense. Not everyone likes it though, and the variation in sexual likes and dislikes in the gay world is much more diverse and realistic; some people are happily partnered without sex, others are happy with kissing and oral.

I'd search the threads here ^^ there's a ton of information already...