Bad Break up and I need some help

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He wants a guilt-free break-up.

What a pity your room-mate got caught up in the crossfire.

Yeah, my roomie is super nice though. He understands, thank god for him.

What I don't understand is that I gave my ex an easy way out. Just come get your things and we go our separate ways. I was very honest when I left him a message and wrote him and email. Basically not blaming him and saying lets just go our separate ways, no ill feelings. He's had a week to set a date and time to get his things. Why didn't he do it, why does he want this drama???

Why didn't he go for it? Why does he want to drag this out? He's in a new relationship and still wants to have contact with me. This one I really don't understand, especially since he's in a hetreo relationship now. Now he's sending me txts msgs wishing me 'good night'. Seriously, WTF? I'm really confused now. In all honesty I just want him out of my life for good.

If I cheated on my ex and jumped into a new relationship, last thing I would want is contact with my ex. Not that I would do that, but why would I want reminders of my previous relationship.

I'm just really confused right now and scared. I'm going through the wide range of emotions, done my crying and I feel like things are getting better...slowly but surely. I'm scared that if he comes back, I might take him back and I don't want that to happen.