Worried about HIV

[JoeyJoJo]

Back in the summer I hooked up with this guy and I made it clear we needed to use protection (which we did)... but we ended up in the shower and he started on me again... I was stupid and didn't even think about it but then realized he hadn't used a condom... he said he was tested recently and is HIV- but I'm still really paranoid/freaked out about this. I'm going to go get tested but I just can't believe I was this stupid.

I was in your exact situation. Well, mine was a bit different. This happened in 2009. Anyway....I went clubbing with this guy I knew and I got really drunk. We go back to his place and wind up in his bedroom. He's cute, but I really had no intentions of having sex with him. He says he wants to watch a movie with me. So we're on his bed and he somehow forgets about the "movie" and starts to undress me, turns off the lights, and proceeds to face fuck me and then sticks it up my ass. The alcohol was clouding my mind and I didn't even think about a condom. The next morning -- with a clear (if somewhat hungover) mind -- I asked him if he used a condom and he said no.
Yikes! I got all panicked and worried, and he said, "Don't worry! I get tested all the time....I don't have anything!" That wasn't really good enough for me (especially when I later learned he's a bit slutty). I was so paranoid. Thank God, though -- I got tested a couple months later and was clean. Whew! Lesson learned!

I hope everything works out for you!