12-31-2010, 01:32 PM
Nikolai Wrote:Okay, I've asked a similar question about how to self-identify, but not anything like this. I was wondering, in list form, what are some things to think about when trying to figure out one's sexual orientation. I know I'm not heterosexual, but I don't know where I fit in. I know I don't have to label myself, but it would make me feel better if I could be at least on the right track. Thanks.
How about, "Am I harming my self?" and "Am I harming anybody else?"
If the answer is no, all is good. Why attach a label to your self, just go out and enjoy your self and come to your own conclusions later, really, life's too short!
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