Bf still hangs out with his Ex

[goodboy15]

he sounds like he's insecure, maybe fears losing you if he doesnt measure up to previous partners, like looking for reasons why things could fail between you both when there's non actualy there - talking to his ex maybe is a bit of a safe haven,,,someone who did care for him in the past - just an idea thats all !

He is very insecure. He would always ask me where did I go, do, who did I encounter with..etc..etc. He admitted he has trust issues. And it's affecting our relationship. You are right, he always looks for reasons why things could fail between us two when there's actually none!

Another day, another problem. I will tell the story even though it is embarrassing to share. By the way, we both live separately and we don't have our own private place to do things, you know what I mean. Last night, we went to a park and we did our thing, yet for some reasons, I couldn't come...you know.. so to make it short, when we got home, he texted me, "I love you but I'm not happy as we used to be...We don't have the spark anymore.." I asked him, why is that? and he said, "I don't think I'm your type physically, I couldn't make you hard." Of course that is not true. I am so attracted to him, I always tell him how cute he is and besides, I don't care what he looks like. I love him just the way he is. We did things before and everything was fine. I'm hard when I'm with him. It makes me sad because he concludes things again.. He thinks I'm not into him and I only treat him as a friend. He doesn't believe me. It's like if I say something positive, he won't believe me. He is so that insecure.

I asked him, what do you want now since you're not happy with me anymore? He said, "I still wanna stay together, I'm just upset 'coz I can't make you hard..."

I do not know what to do now. I feel like he judged me because of that incident.. Does he base our relationship because of that?? When will he grow up and act mature? I feel like I'm tired of explaining when I don't have to do any explanation...