01-15-2011, 11:30 PM
If you go about it like you're sinking a new mine shaft, it will hurt!
Relax, have patience, use plenty of water-based lube and take it slowly. I say water-based lubricant because anything else, like Petroleum Jelly, Hand Cream and other cosmetics can weaken latex condoms (I take it you are using condoms?) to the point where they will split and tare.
Maybe get him to to use a finger or something a little wider at first to get you used to having something up there. Something that wont disappear up there and necessitate a visit to hospital to remove it!
If you think of the average diameter of the stuff that comes out of there and the fact you manage to accommodate that without "screaming ouch in a quiet way", you should be able, given enough time and practice to manage your boyfriend without too much difficulty.
Have fun practising!
Relax, have patience, use plenty of water-based lube and take it slowly. I say water-based lubricant because anything else, like Petroleum Jelly, Hand Cream and other cosmetics can weaken latex condoms (I take it you are using condoms?) to the point where they will split and tare.
Maybe get him to to use a finger or something a little wider at first to get you used to having something up there. Something that wont disappear up there and necessitate a visit to hospital to remove it!
If you think of the average diameter of the stuff that comes out of there and the fact you manage to accommodate that without "screaming ouch in a quiet way", you should be able, given enough time and practice to manage your boyfriend without too much difficulty.
Have fun practising!
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