10-15-2007, 02:54 AM
Hey man welcome to the forum!
It's sometimes hard to tell wether someone is totally straight or otherwise . On the other hand i dont think it really matters; if you like each other have a connection gay bi straight doesnt matter, you just get it on because it feels right. What happens afterwards is another matter.
You know sometimes times some people when fancy someone but hide it are bit shy around them keep a distance but when they dont fancy someone they are more confident and go with the flow. If you are like that you could try be more confident when you are around him and when the opportunity raises (i.e when you were drunk and you thought he was gay ect) start with something casual lad-ish ...a kiss a hug rugby players do that anyway and see where it leads you.
Another option is to take whatever risk is involved and go out to him when you are ready. Probably the most straight forward option you got.
And just to add something , i didnt like the fact you said to common friends you think he might be gay. It was like exposing him in a way out of your own perhaps insecurities. Well...dont do that at least when you are sober!
It's sometimes hard to tell wether someone is totally straight or otherwise . On the other hand i dont think it really matters; if you like each other have a connection gay bi straight doesnt matter, you just get it on because it feels right. What happens afterwards is another matter.
You know sometimes times some people when fancy someone but hide it are bit shy around them keep a distance but when they dont fancy someone they are more confident and go with the flow. If you are like that you could try be more confident when you are around him and when the opportunity raises (i.e when you were drunk and you thought he was gay ect) start with something casual lad-ish ...a kiss a hug rugby players do that anyway and see where it leads you.
Another option is to take whatever risk is involved and go out to him when you are ready. Probably the most straight forward option you got.
And just to add something , i didnt like the fact you said to common friends you think he might be gay. It was like exposing him in a way out of your own perhaps insecurities. Well...dont do that at least when you are sober!
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