11-03-2007, 06:49 AM
I think in a loving relationship you can have all three at one point or another (and maybe more).
When I lost my virginity I wasnt interested in the guy at all except as a teacher. So our first few times were had sex for hours and hours. After clubbing and coming home we would fuck sometimes (maybe the poppers helped at the time). and there were a few times when I am sure that we made love like no others even (for me at least) there were no emotional feelings at all - except for one human to another.
With my BF (we are now very long distance) when we first met we knew we had something for each other. Took a date or two before bedding and the first time was fumbling around and having sex just to learn about each other. It took some communication - verbal and non-verbal - before we were really into the making love thing.
He being Japanese wanted to get into some heavy stuff with ropes but when I pulled the first knot tight he screamed that I was hurting him so the fucking never happened
frank
When I lost my virginity I wasnt interested in the guy at all except as a teacher. So our first few times were had sex for hours and hours. After clubbing and coming home we would fuck sometimes (maybe the poppers helped at the time). and there were a few times when I am sure that we made love like no others even (for me at least) there were no emotional feelings at all - except for one human to another.
With my BF (we are now very long distance) when we first met we knew we had something for each other. Took a date or two before bedding and the first time was fumbling around and having sex just to learn about each other. It took some communication - verbal and non-verbal - before we were really into the making love thing.
He being Japanese wanted to get into some heavy stuff with ropes but when I pulled the first knot tight he screamed that I was hurting him so the fucking never happened
frank
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