How to meet people - friends or otherwise?

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Nah, I really do want to make friends.

I actually have a fair amount of friends, pretty much all straight. They don't mind that I'm gay... but sometimes, I just feel like... I don't know, going out and really being ME, you know? I'd like to have some gay friends to hang out with, talk to, etc.

Yeah I hear ya, it's not so great when you can't talk to mates about crushes and lovelife stuff; when I came out to straight mates they were pretty cool with it, but full on discussion would be a real room killer. It doesn't bother me because they're still friends, and they'll care about you and any issue if it affects you.

On the other hand, the gay scene in clubs and such can be jealous, gossipy, and a little intimidating. It's not something I'd walk into without good company; don't get me wrong it can be a blast, just saying.

Only thing I can think of is to maybe see online and arrange a half-date with someone local ^_^ (just an idea) making it very clear you're not after action, just mates and chat. Just a thought anyway!