05-27-2017, 12:25 AM
I recently had my first ever hookup/one night stand type thing with a guy I had been talking to on Tinder and had snapchatted for just a few hours the day before.
I went over in the morning, we had sex, I left and he went to work. I didn't really know what to do/expect afterwards - if I'm honest I kinda expected to ghosted. But he snapped me all day at work, said it was great to meet me etc etc. Later that night I went over again and stayed the night. The morning after, I was due to fly back to the UK (this happened in the US) and would not be returning to his city for the foreseeable so I knew it was temporary and I probably wasn't going to see him again.
We did get on really well. We laid in bed and chatted for hours after the sex and the sex itself was amazing. So I left again, and he was still snapping me, texting me via snap etc asking how my day was going, saying how it was a shame we couldn't have hung out outside of the bedroom and that it was a shame I wasn't staying longer. He said how he really wanted to stay in touch and be friends. I thought this was just a classic thing guys say but never actually mean
Fast forward a week and he still snaps me every day (I would say around 60-70% of the time he sends the first snap. He says things like 'I wish you were here' 'I'm gonna come get you and move you out here with me' and always complements me, saying I look good/cute/hot etc.
Now I know that this guy sleeps around a lot, which obviously doesn't bother me and of course I know that realistically nothing is ever going to happen. I'm trying to be logical about this, but I did find him very attractive and he was a sweet guy, so for him to still be interested in speaking and constantly complimenting me a week later, I just find it a little weird.
I can't work out whether this is just something he does for every guy he hooks up with or if he did actually quite like me but either way it's a strange situation and not one I have been in before. Anyone had something similar and can offer advice?
I went over in the morning, we had sex, I left and he went to work. I didn't really know what to do/expect afterwards - if I'm honest I kinda expected to ghosted. But he snapped me all day at work, said it was great to meet me etc etc. Later that night I went over again and stayed the night. The morning after, I was due to fly back to the UK (this happened in the US) and would not be returning to his city for the foreseeable so I knew it was temporary and I probably wasn't going to see him again.
We did get on really well. We laid in bed and chatted for hours after the sex and the sex itself was amazing. So I left again, and he was still snapping me, texting me via snap etc asking how my day was going, saying how it was a shame we couldn't have hung out outside of the bedroom and that it was a shame I wasn't staying longer. He said how he really wanted to stay in touch and be friends. I thought this was just a classic thing guys say but never actually mean
Fast forward a week and he still snaps me every day (I would say around 60-70% of the time he sends the first snap. He says things like 'I wish you were here' 'I'm gonna come get you and move you out here with me' and always complements me, saying I look good/cute/hot etc.
Now I know that this guy sleeps around a lot, which obviously doesn't bother me and of course I know that realistically nothing is ever going to happen. I'm trying to be logical about this, but I did find him very attractive and he was a sweet guy, so for him to still be interested in speaking and constantly complimenting me a week later, I just find it a little weird.
I can't work out whether this is just something he does for every guy he hooks up with or if he did actually quite like me but either way it's a strange situation and not one I have been in before. Anyone had something similar and can offer advice?