Not sure if bi, or simply confused.

[SecretLust]

So, what do you think, are you gay, bi or confused? How does this make you feel?

Still very much confused, lol. I think I'm bi, though, in the sense that when I see I woman I perceive as attractive, I have an involuntary physical reaction (boner).

If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck ...

I see what you mean, although I heard a theory that one possible reason for someone to turn out gay is if they are trying to compensate for their own subconsciously perceived lack of virility, or perhaps a lack of attention from their father. I'm not saying I ascribe to those theories at all, but they are interesting. Obviously, someone's past very much defines them psychologically (not to mention biological, and genetic factors but this isn't a science forum so I won't bore anyone!). It just occurs to me that there are multiple reasons for the same thing.