I just don't get it

[fenris]

mile:

You mean a real man should come back to the roots ? ... That don´t work ... he IS on his roots :-)
The Sex, Marriage, Happy Family thing ..will not work with your friend. But what can happen is a much higher and much more powerful level of a friendship... and you will see it, he will be on your side if your relationships with hetero-men break, when Problems come ... but on nice and funny Moments, too.
I know what I talk about ... my best girlfriend .. I know her since 28 Years... we talk about anything, she saw my bf´s gone by .. and I saw her bf´s gone by ... sometimes we sit here and we don´t need to talk... one know what the other thinks.
See him like a friend ... not like a maybe sex-partner... and you can build up a much better friendship as a relationship with him ever could be....