09-02-2011, 02:22 AM
Give him and yourself a break. you need to calm down and stop looking so deeply into it. work more on your relationship and these insecurities will fix themselves. you gave him a bad memory, and he gave you an emotional attack on your first bottom experiance. well what do you expect when he has had EMPTY sex. his first probably lacked EVERYTHING real sex has- and he obviously doesnt know anybetter. its up to you to put some FEELING into his numb soul.