09-02-2011, 04:53 AM
At the age of 15-16 I doubt he would have had a choice in the matter, it more than likely is something that he had to do to survive, and survive he has, and it seems like he is flourishing with the benefit of being in a relationship with you.
I can understand to an extent how you must feel, it is daunting when exposed to some that you truely don't understand.
The important thing is you are with him, and he is with you, the both of you are happy and the both of you are building a future. Make sure he feels loved and appreciated before, during and after sex so that the moments he has with you will be memories that will eclipse the past.
Perhaps you could have a chat with him, let him know that you need to know a few things so you can be at peace, let him know what bothers you, let him know how much you love him, let him know how proud you are that he is turning his life around.
I can understand to an extent how you must feel, it is daunting when exposed to some that you truely don't understand.
The important thing is you are with him, and he is with you, the both of you are happy and the both of you are building a future. Make sure he feels loved and appreciated before, during and after sex so that the moments he has with you will be memories that will eclipse the past.
Perhaps you could have a chat with him, let him know that you need to know a few things so you can be at peace, let him know what bothers you, let him know how much you love him, let him know how proud you are that he is turning his life around.