09-14-2011, 01:38 AM
Well, for me, this is pretty simple. In fact, this would make me pretty damn angry. Running of with an ex like this means, nearly without exception, that things are over or will be over soon. The fact that he can't just tell you he doesn't want to be with you is the infuriating part. If it were me, I'd dump him, and I'd dump him hard. Take the time while he's in Europe to get things straightened out and get yourself back on track.