10-11-2011, 09:28 AM
BellyNel Wrote:I am feeling lonely. I'm not out to the world except for coworkers. People suspect.
Long story short. I know I'm not the best looking guy out there. I don't dare ask coworkers to hook me up since... well, it's gonna be awkward.
But I'm not a horrible person. Honestly I'm not! I'm chatty once I get to know you. I would have no idea where to go on our first date, but open to ideas.
How do I go about finding that FIRST guy to date? One who will accept me appearances first? I'm honestly SCARED to date.
Advice for a VERY VERY first timer?
To be honest its not about looks coz your going to think that about yourself, but others say that your good looking and i dont think it matters if you ask your work friends etc for a date if you like that. mile:
As for the first date depends on yourself and the guy your going on dates with in what you both like doing, but you can always just ask him what sorta stuff he looks and get some sort of idea where to go for a date.
I think your just scared and worrying more about what you look like everyone is different and plus its also about how you are on the date together when you find a guy, but dont use dating sites.