11-24-2011, 12:35 AM
My personal experience, albeit limited has been that 'relationship material' is not found in bars, dance clubs and other venues where its all about 'the hook up'.
I found men at work.. well actually he found me - long story. At AA/NA meetings, at the library, at the coffee shop and at social gatherings like parties hosted by mutual friends.
Instead of focusing on the 'gay' aspect, look at your life and consider other things. Do you read? Is there a book club for mixed singles (gay/bi/straight, etc) in your area?
Do you camp? If so is there a camping clubs/organization that you can join?
What are your other interests? List them and see out like minded clubs and social groups where you can network (expand you friend base) and have a higher risk of meeting someone.
This way you two will have at least one common interest (besides dating men).
I found men at work.. well actually he found me - long story. At AA/NA meetings, at the library, at the coffee shop and at social gatherings like parties hosted by mutual friends.
Instead of focusing on the 'gay' aspect, look at your life and consider other things. Do you read? Is there a book club for mixed singles (gay/bi/straight, etc) in your area?
Do you camp? If so is there a camping clubs/organization that you can join?
What are your other interests? List them and see out like minded clubs and social groups where you can network (expand you friend base) and have a higher risk of meeting someone.
This way you two will have at least one common interest (besides dating men).
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