Bottoming = Feminine?

[Kiid]

weirdly enough.. I kind of struggle with this as well. I suppose because i'm the top in my relationship. However, i'm shorter, i dress better, and I talk more in social situations so people assume i'm the more feminine one in my relationship (I'm sure there are other reasons).

it really makes no sense on paper that it should bother me but to get to the root of what I'm saying is that its offensive to be compared to your partner as who is more of a man.

Haha well I think my boy wants to be the more passive one in the relationship even though I'm more feminin. Though I know that I am fine with people judging cos it is what it is and people will always come to their own conclusions.