What doyou think?

[fenris]

I would ask him what is wrong - if you can´t find a reason. And if it is only a lower sexdrive than your you should talk about possibilities.... maybe a special "friend" for you.. just for fun.
I´m not a friend of breaking a relationship only "for sex"... I know ... sex is important, but for my opinion not all.
Sometimes - and I know it from myself - you know that your man wants sex... but you are not able to react. At the moment I have pains for more then 4 days... and nothing works... years ago I had said Ok .. lets sex but since a few years my man know that if he just ask or try to - when I´m in this status - I bite him in the neck.
A female friend of myself gets a very high dosage of a antidepressiva..and she don´t want sex in this time, too. But she know that her husband needs sex and so she help him in a special way... he can do and touch what he wants, she holds him and so on ... and so both are happy.