falling in love with sex partners

[ZackT]

I have had 1 fling, although at the time I was sorta trying to date her and her trying to date me, but our schedules made it difficult and she was ultimately much more interested in someone she worked with.

It's also the only time I've ever had sex and just couldn't get off. We had sex 3 times and I wore a condom (something I don't normally do with my girlfriends) and for whatever reason, I couldn't get off. I don't think the condom itself is what did it, I've used them prior to that and after that and it worked fine. And it's not like she was too loose or unattractive or anything like that. I just can't figure it out.

I'm not big on 1 night stands though, or just fuckbuddies. It's a cool idea when you say it, but I think the possibility of 1 person developing feelings for the other is pretty guaranteed.