falling in love with sex partners

[AlephNull]

Gay men are a product of brainwashing in their so called 'culture'. I know this is an unpopular notion. We have been programed to live up to straight expectations of what it is to be gay.

I agree completely and it saddens me. I have to actually convince people that I like men because I don't fit the stereotype of "dog lover". Im pretty straight look and I don't have limp wrists or anything. I enjoy men, and that has nothing to do with the rest of my life (for the most part).

You know what I find most disturbing? That people look down on the idea of falling in love with the people you have sex with outside of your "primary relationship", or dismiss it. Conservatives say things along the line of "when you have sex with someone you give them apart of yourself" like its a bad thing. I think that's actually the best part about sex, and something to be celebrated. Maybe if we shared more ourselves with other people, and were more open to each other, maybe this world would be a better place.