Can't finish....And I dont know why

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Up until this point the only way you got off with with the hand. Masturbation is not like sex in any other way.

1. Our grip is tighter than any human orifice.
2. The hand can be pumped faster than our hips, or our head...

You have, most likely, desensitized your penis and now need to adjust to lighter, slowly movements.

The fact that you do get a hard-on tells me that there is nothing medically wrong with you - you do function down yonder. You are also mentally into it.

You may also be placing too much pressure on yourself to 'get off' quickly. The longer it takes the more anxious you get, the less likely you are to get off.

The up side to this is you do not have premature ejaculation, which carries with it its own stressors. The downside is you are going to have to learn how to relax and let him know that it requires a bit more attention for you to get off. A lot of guys do like the idea that the play goes on longer, so it could be a plus with him.

Have him masturbate you for a spell... so his mouth doesn't get too tired.