Someone once told me ...

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I don't know that all women are inherently Bisexual persay, but maybe that they're more open to the idea? Most straight guys feel they have this image to uphold and to admit that they like both sexes is just "outlandish". In fact, I've heard it said that girls can be Bi, but a dude can't. The person literally said, "If he takes it up the butt, he's gay. The end." No inbetweens. I thought that was unreasonable, but some people are just ignorant lol.

I know for me personally, before 5 years ago, the mere idea of being in a sexual relationship, or any kind of romantic relationship for that matter, with a girl was inconcievable. It just didn't compute in my mind. Girls were friends and confidantes, and that was it.

Then I became involved with a girl that pushed my thinking and views on things, provided that oppurtunity to consider it, be a bit more open-minded. And then years later, here I am, a straight person turned Bisexual. Mostly what helped me come to the conclusion was the fact that the last girl I was with I decided I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Up until that point, I could never see a future with a girl, only a guy. But when I finally came to the realization that I could still have a family and all that other stuff I wanted with a girl as well, and that I really wanted that with her, that's when I knew. It wasn't just about the sex or the attraction.