ever feel unwanted?

[fenris]

Has anyone else ever had the feeling they are unwanted?
Even though you do everything in your power to make the one you love happy... it just feels like its not enough because they constantly ask for more.
Like... my bf asks me to change little things about myself (nothing major) so i do but it always leads to another thing needing to change etc.

Its starting to feel like im getting ultimatums all the time... Do this or that, otherwise im leaving you

Is that the norm or what?

I would show him the door ... I hate this " If you don´t change.... " You are not his puppet... and for my opinion it is complete impossible to modify a grown man, if he does not even want