12-06-2011, 09:32 PM
Hi Anon,
First let me say this , I have been where you are , I understand completely the frustration that you are feeling.
I am so very sorry that he is treating you this way.
It took me about 6 months to see that the problem was not me it was him.
It was one of the hardest things I had to do , as by that time he had striped me of all my confidence and self worth.
I was in therapy for a year ,that was the first time I realized that I was in an abusive relationship, it took a very long time to rebuild my self esteem and dismiss the degrading thoughts that kept repeating his insults.
Sweetie I do not usually tell anyone what to do regarding their relationship.
This is the one time I am making the exception.
RUN do not walk ,and please get some counseling .
The thing with emotional abuse is that no one can see the scars .
The abusers get empowered by humiliating you and stealing your self worth.
You are better then that , you deserve happiness.
First let me say this , I have been where you are , I understand completely the frustration that you are feeling.
I am so very sorry that he is treating you this way.
It took me about 6 months to see that the problem was not me it was him.
It was one of the hardest things I had to do , as by that time he had striped me of all my confidence and self worth.
I was in therapy for a year ,that was the first time I realized that I was in an abusive relationship, it took a very long time to rebuild my self esteem and dismiss the degrading thoughts that kept repeating his insults.
Sweetie I do not usually tell anyone what to do regarding their relationship.
This is the one time I am making the exception.
RUN do not walk ,and please get some counseling .
The thing with emotional abuse is that no one can see the scars .
The abusers get empowered by humiliating you and stealing your self worth.
You are better then that , you deserve happiness.
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