What personal sexual requirements, like and dislikes do you have?

[Bowyn Aerrow]

I would hate to be like a guy I know who at age 29, had only had sex with three guys! Wouldn't resentment develop about all the conquests missed? We are men. We are dogs. It's just sex!
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I have not made it a secret that in my 45 years of life I have only had 8 sex partners. I understand that to most gay men this equivalent to my being a virgin.:tongue:

Resentment? No. Regret? On rare occasions I wonder if I missed out on anything... Then I quickly remind myself of such lovely words like Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis A, Shigella... there are many other pretty names.

I tried random acts of sex with strangers - with the intent of a one night stand. I am a firm believer that one shouldn't knock something until they try it. I tried it and found that sex was not satisfying with strangers.

But then I look at sex as the icing on the cake, with the cake being a relationship of commitment and love.

As such I do not 'regret' or 'miss' anything from not having hundreds of sex partners. I tried it, found it wasn't for me - no regrets. Well no regrets in that area :tongue:.