Maybe the typical gay "situation"?

[hamsandwizh]

This is a tough situation! I wasn't sure how my parents felt about gays when I came out but I also came out in my 20's when I had an apartment, job, etc. so I was independent and on my own so I at least had a place to go and could support myself if it didn't go well.

What helped me eventually tell them though was telling my twin brother first over anyone and he was actually my roommate at the time, moved out later to get a place with his girlfriend, not the gay thing, lol. And telling my older brother, neither of them cared and they said mom and dad likely wouldn't care either, I also believe they told my parents before I did so they knew and saw it coming. When I told my mom she said she didn't care, just wanted me to be happy. that was it. So I guess it went fine, lol.

But that is a VERY tough situation you're in and I feel horrible about it! I can't imagine how hard it must be feeling that you have to hide who you are all the time for fear over your parents reaction/rejection. That is the total opposite of what they should do. Whatever you decide though, good luck and hang in there, it will get better although it does get annoying waiting for it to get better