12-11-2011, 04:54 AM
There is always going to be a potential set of built in problems when you try to change someone...the best laid plans and all that jazz....
I think the spyware is a far more serious violation of trust than his smoking weed occasionally. You are playing in dangerous territory there and my advice would be to forget about the perceived problem (him lying) and have a really deep and insightful conversation with yourself concerning the use of spyware and what the greater implications are of doing that. The reason I say this...that behavior is far more concerning than smoking pot in my opinion.
I hope I am not coming off too harsh...my intent is to give you some useful advice from my perspective and I do wish you luck with your Catch 22.
I think the spyware is a far more serious violation of trust than his smoking weed occasionally. You are playing in dangerous territory there and my advice would be to forget about the perceived problem (him lying) and have a really deep and insightful conversation with yourself concerning the use of spyware and what the greater implications are of doing that. The reason I say this...that behavior is far more concerning than smoking pot in my opinion.
I hope I am not coming off too harsh...my intent is to give you some useful advice from my perspective and I do wish you luck with your Catch 22.
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