Asking the top or bottom ?

[jamiebfd]

I am completely relationship oriented but I don't want to waste time if someone is not going to be compatible. I have done it too many times and it sucks for all involved.

How do you pop the question without sounding like all you want is a hook
Up?

There is much more to sexual relationships than just anal sex.
I know Gay couples who dont ever have anal sex.
If you get with someone and love them... sex can be great without any penetration

However... You can always bring it up in conversation... Once you break the ice and have spoken about a few things, go onto sex talk, Ask them how experienced they are and what they have done before.

That way you come across as conversating, rather than a sex addict
lol