Are guys who want to settle down mostly more bottom?

[gayusasian]

Just curious about this.
I guess here are a lot of guys who want to settle down.
Do you prefer more top or more bottom?

[princealbertofb]

May we ask YOU how you feel about this issue?

Is it possible to be versatile (top and bottom) and yet want to settle down???

[gayusasian]

i don't know.
i saw on okcupid. more bottoms than tops
i just guess that maybe bottoms are like women (mentally).
a home, a family means more to bottoms

[gayusasian]

i personally prefer a vers/vers relationship.
you can be both big spoon and small spoon when cuddle.

[WheresTheLove]

I'm vers as well... honestly, I know some people who will exclusively top or exclusively bottom, but, settling down with someone long-term and doing only that for the rest of their lives... wouldn't they want to switch it occasionally? :confused:

If/when I do settle down, I need a guy who is vers if I'm still sexual. That's just how it has to be.

[wanderingboy]

No, I think that is ridiculous. I'm top/vers, and I'm looking to propose to bf shortly.

[monk]

No, I think that is ridiculous.

I agree. Apart from not being the most important part of a relationship (that's another story!), if it was only bottoms who wanted to settle down, who would they settle down with? :confused:

[WheresTheLove]

Just wanted to add that I find it the opposite- most bottoms I've known were very sexually active with lots of different partners, to the point that they never left the house without condoms and lube. -_-

[Matty71]

All I can say is... I'm all for settling down (and I would be true to my mate).

[gayusasian]

No, I think that is ridiculous. I'm top/vers, and I'm looking to propose to bf shortly.

Good luck to you!