Having a "rebound" after serious relationship ends

[LateBloomer]

I divorced my wife in straight relationship. I took many years to be totally for sure this was the correct thing to do. I know I or my wife would not have been able to just go an do it with out a lot of anger. In some ways I am glad to have taken it slow and listened to my emotions along the way and have good friends to push pull me along.

After breaking up with a boy i usually whore around, find anything that has a dick till I start thinking for my self again.

Conversely; I have become close friends with men that i admire but are in an unstable relationship, hang in there as a friend till they break up. Usually puts you first in line.

I agree friendship is invaluable. Thanks.